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July 20th New Moon In Cancer


Rare New Moon in Cancer- 28 degrees, 2nd one this month!

Sometimes I feel these energies so intensely in my human self it takes me a while to integrate and discern the lesson to share with you. Here we go…

The New Moon was exact at 28 degrees Cancer, at 10:33 am PST. Please look to that where that is in your personal chart to understand what area of your life this energy is focused in. If you need help just let me know.

The first New Moon of the month was the Solar Eclipse on the Solstice (July 4th) at 0 degree Cancer. Now it is at the end degrees of Cancer and opposing the heavyweights, Jupiter and Pluto, and specifically Saturn, all still in Capricorn.

Cancer is a water sign ruled by the Moon; our emotions have come in big waves and we feel them deeply. Since the July 4th eclipse in Cancer, we have may have been experiencing a heightened sensitivity and an accompanying depletion. A New Moon in its own sign is always a heads up powerful time.

This is the story of Yin and Yang, feminine and masculine, mother and father, and of integrating these energies inside us. The energies of Cancer (feminine) and Capricorn (masculine) are opposing each other and in a New Moon we need to integrate and balance these energies to move forward.

Cancer energy is all about home, safety, nurturing, cocooning, mothering, and getting things done, albeit cautiously and practically, as is true to Cancer’s nature. We’ve been focusing (due also to the restrictive energy of Capricorn) on staying home, staying safe, nurturing ourselves, improving our home, mastering sourdough bread and caretaking. Even if you have not been able to stay home or have to work from home, chances are these energies have been dominant. Cancer wants to make things better; whether it’s home improvement, kissing a booboo, improving your comfort or making the world (our ultimate home) a better place. Cancer and its ruler the Moon is our emotional landscape and that’s where it gets deep. The Moon is a reflective energy and one thing Cancer tends not to do is not take of itself. We all have Cancer somewhere in our chart, and of course it’s strongest if your Sun, Moon or Rising is Cancer. The Sun and Moon are asking to take care of herself now, again. And to watch out for the shadow side, to self-correct when self-nurturing has become perfectionism and/or self-indulging.

Capricorn, and its ruler Saturn, gives us (an unrelenting) reality check on how we do that. Time has come to take stock of what is working and what isn’t. Intuitively you know. He asks of us; what positive changes can I make that will make ME FEEL BETTER about myself? Eating, drinking, smoking, even working too much can make you feel better in the moment but not better about yourself. That’s the shift that has to happen here.

Just let me say, if this is you (and I haven’t talked to anyone yet that it isn’t) you are not being too sensitive or weak and there is not something wrong with you. You are having a normal reaction to an abnormal event. We just don’t want to feel worse, so we need to shift. If you need support, reach out.

In Astrology, the Moon represents the Mother and Saturn represents the Father. In the most basic sense; father energy provides and expects, while the mother energy nurtures and connects. Now we must act as our own mother and father, providing what was missing and trusting what we received.

Like a mother’s love we can love ourselves unconditionally, for who and how we are. A father’s love, well he (Saturn) has expectations because he loves us. Loving ourselves and being proud of ourselves may be two different things. And we deserve to be proud of ourselves too.

You have the opportunity to hit a reset button going all the way back to January 10th, our Full Moon in Cancer, when the Sun was also conjunct Saturn and Pluto in Capricorn. These are simply cycles that offer windows of opportunity to change. Saturn brings the pressure and Pluto brings the transformation. These two, along with Jupiter are with us all of 2020, through December in a powerful and profound way. It is best to heed their lessons along the way. Come December 2020 you will be so glad you did!!

Pluto in Capricorn is our capacity for change in 2020. How can I transform these patterns? What little change can I make that take me out of the loop of the past or where I am stuck? He is showing us where and what we need to liberate ourselves from. To both understand and accept what is out of our control and to make better choices about what is within our control to make our days better.

No astrology is here to hurt or frustrate us. The energy is here to help us grow, into our soul’s destiny on our soul’s path.

Jupiter in Capricorn gives us the openness, optimism, and hope that if I put in a little effort and make tiny adjustments, take small actions I’ll see the rewards. I’ll feel better about myself and my future. We can’t just give up, we need to stay grounded, keep believing and stay the course because it will take us someplace better!

And so, I make the emphasis on little, tiny, and small because we are overwhelmed and exhausted much of the time. And all this water energy (Mercury is in Cancer too and Neptune is in Pisces) wrapped up in a pandemic, social unrest, and ongoing uncertainty can make us very sensitive and overwhelmed by just the word “effort” or “change”. Believe me I get it. Cancer wants you to truly nurture yourself through this, but that may be different than hiding and emotionally indulging. And Saturn is here in this New Moon to point that out and give you some support/focus to make choices that will actually make you feel better instead of worse.

Ultimately, Saturn is about doing the hard stuff, and we are made to do hard stuff too. Not all the time, but sometimes, just enough to make our life feel better. You are stronger (and more sensitive) than you think, you may not like it that you have to be, but you are.

A word on Feelings: Cancer as I mentioned rules over our emotional energy; what makes us feel loved, safe and protected, nurtured and cared for. With the Sun, Moon and Mercury here, focus on creating that. Put yourself on the agenda. We are in this for the long haul and we are still processing shock and uncertainty. We can use this New Moon to move into adapting, feeling stronger and even hopeful.

Using these huge waves of emotions to work through, to channel, to focus them in a way that is not self-destructive, but helpful, creative, nurturing, and connecting (all Cancer words), requires boundaries, self-discipline, effort and focus (all Capricorn words). By integrating and keeping these opposing energies balanced we will feel better about ourselves, our future, and our ability to deal with it.

Be stingy (Capricorn) and protective (Cancer) with your energy (feelings), put it or give it only where it really matters, where it makes you feel better about yourself, and absolutely no judgment allowed (shadow of Cancer and Capricorn). That is the ultimate for this Cancer/Capricorn reset New Moon. 

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When We know Better, We Do Better; a bit of my personal story

Posted on December 19, 2019 at 12:20 AM

When We Know Better

We Do Better


 

 

I know it's Holiday Cheer time and I certainly am enjoying the festivities and my family! And I hope you are too!

But it doesn't change the fact that there are some somber times ahead and I want you to be prepared.

 

So after a dream I had the other night, I decided to share some of my story where I learned many lessons, a great deal about Astrology, and why it is so important to me.

(and why there is a picture of a volcano at the top of this blog)

 

Okay I’m going to be very honest with you a share a deeply personal story that only a few people know. I hope you receive it with compassion and it shows you how important astrology can be in our lives.

 

About 20 years ago, I made a decision. Even though I felt like I really didn’t have a choice, ultimately, I made the decision. And I’ll tell you, if I had known what I know now about astrology, if I had been paying more attention, I never would have made that choice.

Our birth chart is truly a map to of our Soul Path, it is a dynamic energy of challenges and potentials. We can take the hard way or the easier way (when available). And knowing my personal astrology at the time would’ve changed everything.

 

At the time I was 3 years in to my 2nd marriage, with 4 kids in southern California and my husband wanted to uproot us all and move back to his hometown of Shreveport La. The internet had just begun and figuring out complicated astrology was not at the tip of my fingers as it is today. So one of the biggest big red flags I missed was in something called astro-cartography. It’s when you lay your natal chart over a destination and see how it interacts. Mine had a very, very volatile aspect; Mars (god of war) conjunct (over) Pluto (god of death), and this aspect was exact over Shreveport.

 

Within 6 months of moving there I was terrified of my husband and I left him. But because he had become so volatile my children and I were “hiding” in a women’s shelter. There were many, many layers and lessons re Mars and Pluto there, a huge one being taking my power (Pluto) back, standing in my power and using the energy (Mars) for good. But ultimately there was also a lesson of surrender to Source, because being caught up in a power struggle with Mars and Pluto was no way to live either. I believe that is true power. There were also many, many instances of hope, faith and unbelievable protection.

 

Eventually I won permanent sole custody, and even though he had been arrested 3 times for breaking my protective order, our Judge refused to let the children and I return to the safety of home in California, and we endured 13 years of this there. In a weird way that may have been a form of protection too, one of God’s unanswered prayers, because who knows what he would have done had he lost control and we had been allowed to leave.

 

I have made peace with what happened as it was like Spiritual Bootcamp, woke me up and made me who I am today. But there are scars, scars in me and scars in my children (the hardest part of all). This was activated in our charts by me moving there. During those years I couldn't help but wonder how my life (and my children's) would have been different had I known what I know now and made a different choice. Maybe not such a direct hit? If I had had a Wayshower would I have listened to her?

When we know better, we do better right?

 

Now I look at what happened like a volcano explosion and the lava (scars) that flows forms New Earth. Lava is powerful, creative and the richest soil on earth. I became someone else, someone new, out of that volcanic explosion. Pluto, ultimately had done it’s work. Death, rebirth, transformation.

 

Sharing my story is not meant to scare you, only to show you the power of astrology and our lessons in life. As we head into 2020, there is astrology that reflects and repeats such things as the Protestant Reformation (4 centuries ago), our own American Revolution and the birth of America (244 years ago), and 9/11 (19 years ago). These are all astrological cycles of endings and new beginnings. And yes, they are all culminating in one year, 2020. Of the 6 eclipses in 2020 3 are in the 1st house of the chart of the United States. The united States of America will also be experiencing a Pluto return...more on that later...

 

Now, they (the astro energies) have been building for awhile and they will continue to do their work over many years, but the aspects and eclipses that produced these events are repeating and peaking in 2020 and some into 2021. It actually starts with the Solar Eclipse, conjunct Jupiter (planet of expansion and beliefs) in Capricorn (career, business, government) that falls on Christmas.

 

This collective astrology will have an impact on your personal chart and perhaps where you live.

So I, for one, am playing close attention.

And I would like to pay close attention for you too.

 

If you would like to know more about how I can help you navigate the astrology of 2020, go to my Services page at the bar atop..

 

 

 

As one of my favorite Astrologers says, “The Stars do not compel, but impel”. Lance Ferguson, Skywatch Astrology.

In other words, forewarned is forearmed.

 

Thank you for reading this and for your support of my work. I hope you can see now why this is so important and so important to me.

 

Much Love,

Wendy

 

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